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By Novus Fumus, 14 april 2023

A romantic evening with Spanish Fly: Tips for an unforgettable experience

Nothing is as seductive as an evening full of romance, passion, and intimacy. Spanish Fly, also known as "Spaanse Vlieg," is a natural aphrodisiac that can give your love life an exciting boost. In this blog, we share some ideas for experiencing an unforgettable romantic evening with your partner, enhanced by the magic of Spanish Fly.

Creating the perfect atmosphere

Set the tone for an intimate evening by creating the perfect atmosphere. Dim the lights, light some scented candles, and play soft, romantic music in the background. Make sure the space is clean and tidy so that you can fully concentrate on each other. Use soft and comfortable materials, such as pillows and blankets, to create a cozy and inviting environment.

Spotify Playlist

Here is a playlist of romantic and sensual songs that you can use for an intimate evening with your partner:

  • "Let's Stay Together" - Al Green
  • "At Last" - Etta James
  • "Thinking Out Loud" - Ed Sheeran
  • "Your Body Is a Wonderland" - John Mayer
  • "Latch (Acoustic)" - Sam Smith
  • "By Your Side" - Sade
  • "Can't Help Falling in Love" - Elvis Presley
  • "All of Me" - John Legend
  • "Wonderful Tonight" - Eric Clapton
  • "Kiss from a Rose" - Seal
  • "Love Me Like You Do" - Ellie Goulding
  • "Sexual Healing" - Marvin Gaye
  • "Come Away With Me" - Norah Jones
  • "Crazy in Love (Fifty Shades Version)" - Beyoncé
  • "I Will Always Love You" - Whitney Houston
  • "Make You Feel My Love" - Adele
  • "You're Beautiful" - James Blunt
  • "I Don't Want to Miss a Thing" - Aerosmith
  • "Truly Madly Deeply" - Savage Garden
  • "Earned It" - The Weeknd

These songs vary in genre and style, but they all have one thing in common: they are perfect for creating a romantic and intimate atmosphere. Customize the playlist based on your personal music taste and add your own favorite love songs to make it even more special.

A romantic dinner for two

Prepare a delicious dinner together or order from your favorite restaurant. Choose foods that are known as aphrodisiacs, such as oysters, chocolate, and asparagus. Don't forget to add a few drops of Spanish Fly to your drink to ignite the passion. Set a beautifully decorated table with candlelight and fresh flowers, and enjoy an uninterrupted conversation with your partner while you indulge in the delicious food.

Sensual massage: Connection and intimacy

A sensual massage is a great way to increase intimacy. Use a fragrant massage oil and pay attention to each other's body. Take the time to discover each other's desires and wishes. Let your hands move slowly and tenderly over your partner's skin, using your fingertips to gently knead and massage. Communicate with your partner about what feels good and adjust your technique if necessary.

Relax together in a warm bath

Fill the bath with warm water, add some bath oil or bath salts, and enjoy a relaxing bath together. This is the perfect moment to spoil each other and enjoy each other's company. Use soft sponges or washcloths to wash each other's bodies, and let your hands glide over the skin to stimulate the senses. Add some rose petals or essential oils for an extra touch of romance.

The lovemaking game: Excitement and fun

This can range from simple questions to get to know each other better to more daring challenges that increase excitement. For example, try a game with instruction cards, where you take turns drawing a card and performing the task. Or make a list of challenging questions and activities that you can explore together. The most important thing is to communicate openly and honestly about your boundaries and comfort levels and to have fun while strengthening your bond.

Here is a list of challenging questions and activities that you can explore during a romantic evening:


  • What is your favorite memory of us together?
  • What is the most adventurous thing you have ever done in love and relationships?
  • What is a fantasy that you have always wanted to try?
  • What do you find most attractive about me?
  • What is your favorite way to be touched?
  • What is the craziest thing you have ever done for love?
  • How would you describe our perfect romantic date?
  • What are your favorite and least favorite things about our relationship?
  • What aspect of our intimacy would you like to improve?


  • Blindfold your partner and use different objects (such as a feather, ice cube, or your fingers) to create different sensations on their skin.
  • Write down some erotic or romantic wishes on pieces of paper, fold them up, and put them in a jar. Take turns drawing a wish from the jar and fulfilling it.
  • Give each other an exciting lap dance to your favorite music.
  • Try a new position or technique together that you have always wanted to try.
  • Watch an erotic movie together and discuss what you find exciting about it.
  • Read erotic stories to each other and discuss how you feel about the content of the story.
  • Play a role-playing game where you bring your fantasies to life.
  • Try a session of sensual yoga or tantric exercises to deepen your connection.
  • Write a love letter to each other describing what you appreciate most about your partner and your relationship.

Don't forget to communicate openly and honestly about your boundaries and comfort levels and to have fun while strengthening your bond.

End with an intimate moment

After an evening full of romance and seduction, end with an intimate moment together. This can range from cuddling on the couch to sharing your deepest thoughts and feelings. Use this moment to deepen your connection with your partner and express your love and appreciation for each other.

A romantic evening with Spanish Fly can be an unforgettable experience for you and your partner. By creating the atmosphere, enjoying a delicious dinner together, giving a sensual massage, taking a relaxing bath together, and playing the lovemaking game, the passion between you can ignite. Don't forget to capture and cherish the moment, and enjoy the magic of Spanish Fly.