It is an universal experience among all of us: going from being in love with each other turning into loving one another. After all, with time you get used to about everything. Do you still get butterflies when you see your partner? If not, there is no reason for panicing. After some years, you know precisely what to expect from each other. This feels very suiting and safe, but it does get a bit boring sometimes. Of course you do not have to pull stupid acts to spice up your relationship in order to keep things exciting. However, you can prevent getting bored out of your skull. This article is here to provide 7 pieces of advice to keep your relationship fun.
1. Trust each other
The foundation of a good relationship is trust. If something bothers you, know you can trust him or her to share your feelings without being judged by your significant other. It is important to trust and appreciate each others opinion. When you feel as if you cannot trust your partner, talk about it with him or her.
2. Relax in your relationship
You have the freedom to be completely yourself in a relationship hence its importance to feel at ease with your partner. If you do not feel this way for the full 100 percent, something will be gnawing at you at a subconscious level. You should find relaxation, affection and love in a relationship. You are not supposed to have the feeling of walking on eggshells around your partner.
3. Learn how to talk and listen actively
This might sound funny because of course you know how to talk. But do you and your partner really speak with each other or are your conversations rather superficial? Expose your feelings, tell what bothers you and say the things you feel deep inside your heart. Tell your story and truly listen to each other. Give it your best shot when providing your partner with useful advice.
4. Make time available to spend with each other
Most probably, you and your partners did fun things together back in the days. Do not get sucked in by too much work, daily business and the care of the kids. Do something fun with the one you love for at least once a week. For example take a walk in the park together or go out dining or play a game of cards.
5. Be intimate
By this, I do not mean to jump the other immediately, but intimacy is really important in a relationship. Give him or her an unexpected hug or kiss your partner on the cheek in public. Even though many couples go through this life without a sex life, intimacy is what makes a relationship golden.
6. Give each other some space
You do not need to be together nonstop. Remain seeing your friends and focussing on your hobbies. Not being together is in the end the strongest glue of all.
7. Learn how to make compromises
Be willing to put some water to the wine. It is common to think for 2 people when being together. Meet each other half way sometimes. It is not meant for one person to give in all the time.
How do you keep the fire alive in your relationship?